tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-617426134849640048.post2883881778745232095..comments2023-11-03T07:36:08.643-04:00Comments on The View From Here: Did I Do That? Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-617426134849640048.post-16662583398364754542009-03-18T08:10:00.000-04:002009-03-18T08:10:00.000-04:00@Anon-Well of course I did the right thing. He has...@Anon-Well of course I did the right thing. He has no reason not to trust me, in all the months prior to the restructure my advice and answers have been sound. But in these days and times the name of the game is show your worth which translates to looking out for me, myself and I. <BR/><BR/>@Bellini-LOL! Yeah I was speechless too. This is the type of thing you read about in magazines or on blogs, you never think it will be your own life story. I am happy to report that my work homegirl gave me her privacy screen.Amarettohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13102198081380362303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-617426134849640048.post-43360195141528614402009-03-17T19:22:00.000-04:002009-03-17T19:22:00.000-04:00Amaretto OMG! I'm speechless... we'll talk later.....Amaretto OMG! I'm speechless... we'll talk later...Bellinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07059515033669847759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-617426134849640048.post-57913571884576077892009-03-17T10:11:00.000-04:002009-03-17T10:11:00.000-04:00The first time I heard this story, I thought just ...The first time I heard this story, I thought just pretend like it didn't happen and that you didn't know that it went to the person intended. But after some more thought...if you think this is effecting the work-relationship. I think you need to sit down and apologize...explain how you felt about him hoovering over your shoulder and that you wrote that email in anger.<BR/><BR/>The last thing you want is his for him to not approach you with work you could be doing. Especially if he manages to handle that workload...you may start to look dispensible.(Can't have you loosing your job ma)<BR/><BR/>Bite the bullet...he maybe mad for a while and might even give you the evil eye. But if he knows what's good for him he would get over it and start handing work down. As a manager of a team, I could see how he doesn't want to send work down the pipeline to you because he can't really trust you...especially after the email.<BR/><BR/>You need to rebuild that trust.<BR/><BR/>P.S. I don't suggest bringing up the past about him getting the job over you...that only makes you look even smaller.<BR/><BR/>Luv U.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com