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Monday, June 1, 2009

K.I.S.S for Him

Sometimes I just don't understand it. They say Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus but I swear it feels like Men are not even from this universe at times. Or is it just us? I think back to all of my most irritating moments with men and I got to tell you sometimes, these dudes have me questioning my intelligence. So what do you do Courvoisier... I K.I.S.S him.

Kiss for me and a K.I.S.S for him.

Almost everybody is familiar with the K.I.S.S. method of doing things. Well, when dealing with men I have to remember K.I.S.S him. In fact, K.I.S.S him with all of my heart because lawd knows if I don't... okay I won't elaborate. (chuckle) And for those of you who don't know what kind of kissing I am talking about I'm talking about Keeping It Simple Sista! Keeping it simple, in my opinion slows down on most of the frustrations I have dealing with men.

So for shitiggles (shits and giggles plus one or two chuckles) I put together a little quiz to check if you are kiss your man Courvoisier style. (My answers are in yellow)

1. I have been talking to this guy and some feelings are developing but I was wondering where this relationship is going. What do I do?

a) Wade it out.
b) Hint at the fact, I like him a lot.
c) Give that dude an ultimatum.
d) State your feelings, ask him how he feels. (smooch)

2. Ray-ray says "We are just friends" What does that mean?

a) We are soon to be lovers.
b) This dude wants to marry me.
c) In a couple of months I will meet his mama.
d) We are just friends, no more no less. (smooch)

3. You offer to make King James dinner. So what do you do?

a) You cook a dish you have never made in your life.
b) You cook the fanciest meal possible.
c) Order out because you don't know why you offered in the first place.
d) Cook something you know he eats and enjoys, well then call it a night. (smooch)

If you answered d. to these few questions, then you are kissing your man Courvoisier style. Believe me I know kissing him right can be difficult at times, but I got to believe the right man for me is a simple being. So as long as I don't play games and I kiss him right I should be fine. Right?

Much luv until next week... smooches :)

P.S. This post is in reference to men not boys. (chuckle)


Intrepidblackman said...

Dang it sounds scary out there on the dating scene. I've been married 11 yearsa and I shudder at the thought of dating.

Keeping it simple does make sense. As I tell Intrepidblackwoman often, men are a lot simplier than women think.

Courvoisier said...

As much as we try to pretend it isn't scary... some 'boys' prey on a woman's desire to be with someone. It is just too easy... shall I say simple (chuckle) to go with the flow.